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The first question I would like to ask is how did you get involved in SM/Fetish ?
Originally I got involved in the BDSM and Fetish as a submissive, I was particularly into bondage. I also went to local Fetish clubs and events and eventually started my own very and very successful amateur bondage website with my ex partner. |
Why did you choose to be a Mistress?
Discovering my Dominant side was really a natural progression from being a submissive. I soon discovered I enjoyed being a Mistress, having the power and being a superior being to be obeyed, worshipped and adored. I know my submissive experience helps me immensely as a Mistress, I understand what a submissive needs, their desires and how far to push their limits. |
Are you natural dominant?
Yes I am. I like to get my own way and I usually do! |
Can You describe Your style of Domination?
Sensual and sadistic I think sums my sessions up well. I love to push my slaves limits, yet with the pain also comes my sensual reassuring touch, letting them know their Mistress understands their pain and importantly, that I understand and respect the trust they put in me during a session. That said, my slaves are left under no illusion their pain is my pleasure! |
Do you have your on dungeon or do you work only outcall?
I have my own chambers/dungeon facility. I have in fact just bought a new house which I am converting (with slave labour of course) and will be using solely for BDSM and Fetish purposes. It have several rooms including, dungeon, a specialist bondage cell, a schoolroom, a white room and a also a domestic setting for maids and domestics slaves to serve me in.
I do not do outcalls unless I know the slave/submissives very well. |
Where do you work and what must slaves do to have the chance to meet you for a session?
My chambers are based in Milton Keynes, UK and are close to the M1 & M40 motorways. I am only one hour by train from London or Birmingham. From London it is about 1.5 hours drive, from Birmingham about an hours drive. Slave must approach me either by email or by phone, they must be respectful, polite and must have read my website so they know in advance what activities I will engage in. I do get angry when slaves ask me to do something I have clearly stated I do not allow. That said, I am always open to new ideas and will consider most scenes and role-plays. |
Do you have personal slaves?
I do not have any personal slaves as such, but I have several slaves who are devoted to me and I call upon to help me out in sessions or other ways when I need them. I am also not taking on any personal slaves either. |
Are your sessions for men only or couple are also accepted?
No I do not limit myself to just males. I have quite a few couples who visit me on a regular basis for a variety of sessions, I consider this to be one of my specialities. I do thoroughly enjoy either dominating them both, or aiding one partner to dominate the other. I particularly enjoy having sessions with females, I have several ladies who visit me, and I would love to train a lesbian couple. |
I noticed that you are really enjoying yourself while dominating men. Is there really a play you enjoy more than an other?
Oh yes I get immense pleasure from my work as a Mistress, and I find it very rewarding in many ways. It is hard to say what activity I enjoy the most, I find it is more to do with how much the submissive is enjoying the session – the more they are enjoying the more I enjoy the session. That said, I do love to torture nipples (M or F), they are like little radio buttons, to be turned and played with. I also love to make slaves to perform for me in ways they wouldn’t normally such as forced bi-activities and generally pushing their limits. |
Please tell me the most intense session You ever did
I am not sure I could pick one particular session as the most intense. All my sessions are tailored to a slave’s needs, experience and commitment to pushing their limits. So for each slave the session should be the most intense they’ve had. However several sessions do stick out in my mind, but I don’t think it would be correct to discuss them. |
What do you think is necessary to have a good SM session and experience?
I would say communication, trust and understand on both sides. For a submissive to enjoy a session with me, or any Mistress, I need to know what they seeks in the session. For my part the submissive needs to know that they can trust me and when they place themselves under my control the session will be safe, sane and within (just) their limits. Sometimes this can take several sessions for a level of trust to be established. I am also very adept at dealing with novices, someone taking that vital first step into world of BDSM. |
Do you think a relationship Mistress/slave is deeper or stronger than any other kind of relationship?
It is hard to say, certainly a BDSM relationship can be more intense at times and aspects of the relationship can make for a strong personal bond, however I am not a lifestyle Mistress so it’s probably not something I can comment on too much. |
What do you think about an utopic world ruled by Women?
It has to happen sooner rather than later otherwise men will just deepen the mess the world is already in! |
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